Helping a Loved One: Families and Carers

A compassionate interactive guide for families, partners, friends and carers supporting someone with an eating disorder. Explore different eating disorders, understand difficult behaviours, practise supportive conversations and create your own reflections and family support plan. Includes 14 chapters, bookmarks and downloadable resources.

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Helping a Loved One:
Families and Carers

A compassionate guide to supporting someone living with an eating disorder, while remembering that you matter too.

Understanding, communication, practical support, recovery and looking after yourself.

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Chapter 1 of 14

Words That Help

Supporting someone with an eating disorder can involve difficult conversations. These examples are suggestions, not scripts that fit everyone.

Choose a situation to consider a more compassionate response.

When you don't know what to say

"I may not fully understand what you're going through, but I want to understand. I'm here to listen, and we can look for help together."

You don't have to find perfect words. Respect, consistency, listening and a willingness to learn can matter more than having every answer.

My Family and Carer Reflection Journal

This is a private space to explore your feelings, concerns and needs without judgement.

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Our Compassionate Support Plan

Where possible, create this collaboratively with your loved one. Respect their consent, privacy, wishes and capacity. Professional treatment plans should always take priority over general suggestions.

Finding Additional Support

In the UK, a GP can help arrange an assessment and referral to appropriate eating-disorder services. Children and adults may require different referral pathways.

Eating disorders can be medically serious at any body weight. If there is fainting, chest pain, severe weakness, dehydration, concerning physical deterioration or another urgent symptom, seek urgent medical care. Call 999 for an emergency or NHS 111 for urgent non-emergency advice.

For specialist information and support, visit Beat Eating Disorders.

From My Table to Yours

When someone you love is living with an eating disorder, you may feel that you need to find every answer, say every word correctly and make every situation better.

But support isn't about becoming a perfect carer. It is about staying connected, continuing to learn, reaching out for appropriate help and remembering that your own wellbeing matters too.

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This guide is for education and reflection. It does not diagnose eating disorders or replace medical assessment, nutritional care or specialist treatment.