Valentine’s Day is often filled with images of romance. Whether it’s on TV, social media or even in shop windows, love and relationships are constantly on display. This can be tough if you’re single or not feeling great about your relationship. But Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to be about romantic love, you can focus on self-love for valentines day
Celebrate yourself, be your own Valentine
Instead of worrying about what you don’t have, why not use self-love for Valentines Day as a chance to celebrate yourself? Take a break from the pressure and focus on what makes you happy. Treat yourself to a nice meal, spend time doing something you love or simply take a moment to reflect on your achievements. You don’t need a partner to feel special. You are enough just as you are.
Develop self-care routines
Valentine’s Day is just one day, but self-care is something you can practise all year. Developing routines that make you feel good is key. This could be as simple as taking a walk, journaling or spending time with friends and family. Self-care isn’t selfish, it’s necessary. By looking after yourself, you’re building a foundation for long-term happiness and well-being.
Combatting the Valentine’s Day blues
It’s normal to feel down on Valentine’s Day, especially with all the pressure to be in a relationship. Remember, you’re not alone. Many people find this day challenging. If you’re struggling, try to focus on what brings you joy. You could plan a day with friends, pick up a new hobby or simply relax at home. The important thing is to do what feels right for you.
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Navigating relationships with ADHD
If you’re in a relationship where ADHD is involved, it can bring unique challenges. Our e-course, Partner Power: Relationships with ADHD, offers strategies to help couples manage ADHD symptoms and improve communication. This course can be a great way to strengthen your relationship and build a deeper understanding of each other. You can learn more here.
Recognise when you need support
Sometimes, self-care and self-love aren’t enough and that’s okay. If you’re finding it hard to cope, it might be time to seek professional support. Talking to someone can make a big difference. Whether it’s in person or virtually, I’m here to help. If you need someone to talk to, book an appointment with me, Maggie and let’s chat about how you’re feeling.
Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to be about couples. It can be a day to focus on loving and caring for yourself. Remember, you are worthy of love and kindness—especially from yourself.
With love,
Maggie

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